bruising

adjectives

causing mental or emotional injury
"a bruising experience"; "protected from the bruising facts of battle"- John Mason Brown
is similar to
causing or capable of causing harm
"too much sun is harmful to the skin"; "harmful effects of smoking"
brutally forceful and compelling
"protected from the bruising facts of battle"
is similar to
characterized by or full of force or strength (often but not necessarily physical)
"a forceful speaker"; "a forceful personality"; "forceful measures"; "a forceful plan for peace"