adjectives
unwillingness to do something contrary to your custom
"a reluctant smile"; "loath to admit a mistake"
disinclined to become involved
"they were usually reluctant to socialize"; "reluctant to help"
is similar to
unwilling because of mild dislike or disapproval
"disinclined to say anything to anybody"
not eager
"foreigners stubbornly reluctant to accept our ways"; "fresh from college and reluctant for the moment to marry him"
is similar to
lacking interest or spirit or animation
"decrepit, colorless uneager things"