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Why We Should Want to Fail As Writers

When I worked in daily newspapers, in the early 1980s, I wrote and edited my stories on a computer. This was shortly before desktop computers were an item you could buy in a store, so we all knew we were pretty cool….

Anyway, I had to apply a special coding to everything I edited. I can no longer remember exactly how I did it but my job involved something a bit like HTML coding today. You know: I had to put <HEL 48> before a headline that I wanted to be 48 pt. Helvetica and </HEL 48> after, when I wanted to stop the headline and return to regular body type.

One day, I sent a long story for typesetting, just before the deadline. The trouble? I forgot to add the concluding code. As a result, the entire, very long story was in 48 pt. type. It took about 10 minutes to typeset, made the newspaper late and wasted a lot of expensive phototypesetting paper.

My boss, who didn't usually like me, was surprisingly good-humored about it. "You're producing some interesting wallpaper out back," he said. "Oh, and there's a posse of guys looking for your scalp."

I had made a mistake. A pretty bad one. But I didn't get fired. Or even reprimanded. I think everyone knew I'd beat myself up enough for it. And I'd never do it again.

A few months later, I experienced another, more writerly failure. This one was with one of my reporters, a junior writer. Assigned to review a dance performance, she had used a metaphor in which she compared the dance to a plate of spaghetti.

I called her over to my computer later that day and complimented her on presenting a metaphor. Then I asked her what it meant. "I was trying to say the performance was confused – in the same way that noodles and sauce are all jumbled together," she said. She paused before adding, "It didn't really work, did it?"

I confirmed that it didn’t and again congratulated her again on making the effort. Then we had a good discussion about how to use figurative language in a way that really works.

My boss would have had conniptions if he'd heard me congratulating her, but I'm a big believer in making mistakes. This is because mistakes show you're pushing yourself. You're trying to learn new things. You're trying to get better at what you do.

Psychologists know that even high profile mistakes — lightweight: my daughter tripping and falling when she went to receive her university degree in early June; serious: President John F. Kennedy and the Bay of Pigs — can make people seem more likeable. This is a result of the so-called "pratfall effect." When someone we see as competent makes a mistake, we often like that person more because it shows they are human, too.

Anjali Sastry, a lecturer at the MIT Sloan School of Management and Harvard Medical School, has even written a book about the subject of mistakes. It's called Fail Better: Design Smart Mistakes and Succeed Sooner. In it, she presents three steps for failing better:

  1. Launch every innovation project with the right groundwork
  2. Build and refine ideas and products through iterative action
  3. Identify and embed the learning

I think the most important one is #3: learn more. Failure is part of the human condition. (And, of course, the writer's condition as well.)  Nothing we do is ever going to be perfect. So if we can learn from our mistakes, we're doing well.

So many writers suffer from so much fear they become terrified to put words on the page. In no way does this help them. It only hinders them in producing their crappy first draft

Of course, there are a few people in society we don't want making mistakes. I'd put surgeons, airplane pilots and nuclear plant technicians on that list. But writers? Writers?

I'm not saying writers should be either careless or thoughtless. We need to be careful and diligent in our work. (Particularly at the research end. Get the facts right!) But I'm also saying we need to be unafraid to try new things. Get outside of our comfort zones. Push ourselves to write in different ways and faster.

If we're not making at least a few mistakes we're probably not producing nearly enough work.

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A former daily newspaper editor, Daphne Gray-Grant is a writing and editing coach and the author of 8� Steps to Writing Faster, Better. She offers a free weekly newsletter on her website Publication Coach. Click here to read more articles by Daphne Gray-Grant.

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Friday June 16th 2017, 5:33 AM
Comment by: Victor G. (Vancouver Canada)
We employ a language pedagogy called 'Where Are Your Keys' wherein our response to mistakes and success alike is to throw our hands in the air and exclaim "How Fascinating!" Both are just as important to the learning process as each other. One of my favourite quotes is "If world were perfect it would be a pretty boring place."
Friday June 16th 2017, 4:16 PM
Comment by: Daphne Gray-Grant (Vancouver Canada)Visual Thesaurus Contributor
Love your "how fascinating" idea! I'm going to start adopting that strategy. Thank you!
Friday June 16th 2017, 11:19 PM
Comment by: MELODY H. (Westminster, CO)
Always look forward to Daphne's thoughts and suggestions!Inspiring and motivating words for fledgling writers! Great advice for all humans no matter what your quest. Much appreciated Daphne!
Saturday June 17th 2017, 6:00 AM
Comment by: Victor G. (Vancouver Canada)
It is a great strategy for certain! I wish I could take credit for it, but it was part of the pedagogy before it was introduced to me.
Sunday June 18th 2017, 11:19 AM
Comment by: Victoria Avilan (Redondo Beach, CA)
So true. I love this article, as it describes the state of my entire life right now, as a writer and a human being.
Wednesday June 21st 2017, 10:32 AM
Comment by: Dre2911
Thank you very much for this article. I have just become a new fan. Very insightful.

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