What Was That Again? Words With Difficult-to-Remember Meanings

July 11, 2014
Sometimes there are words that you've seen, read and maybe even used in conversation whose meaning you can never keep straight. Even after looking it up, the right definition doesn't stick. Here are 15 words with definitions that can be difficult to remember. Some look like they have a negative element in them, but either because their positive counterpoint has fallen out of use or because it never existed in the first place, the word doesn't really have a negative sense. Other words below are often confused for their opposite or have come to have connotations not quite reflected in their dictionary definitions.
If it looks like there's a negative at the beginning of this word, it's because etymologically speaking there is- it's from Latin non plus, "no more, no further". Still, there is no word plussed, and that can get confusing.
Laudrup appeared almost equally nonplussed to learn the officials were not required to make themselves available to the media to offer some sort of explanation.
—The Guardian March 11, 2013
It may look like the in- at the start of this word would be the same as the one at the start of words like incomplete or inadequate. Although that may be a good way to remember it, the first letters of this word are not a negative. The word comes from Latin inchoare which meant "to begin." Inchoate things are often just beginning.
Like all true grass roots movements, the TPM is inchoate, unfocused, and disorganized. 
—Forbes July 1, 2014
There are shades of meaning between cachet and panache that are often confused. Cachet is more about prestige and panache is more about style. Another way to put it is the fact that you are doing something at all, say,High Tea at Buckingham Palace, can have a lot of cachet in your social circle, but how you do something, like the genteel way you sip your tea can have a lot of panache.
Cachet — isn’t that like panache, but sitting down?
—Warren Zevon
See above.
Each one he answered swiftly, with a practiced grace and panache, deploying disarming tones and the most appropriate facial expressions.
—New York Times May 24, 2014
It was possible to defatigare " to tire out", in Latin, but only the negative version, prefixed with in- survived the journey into English ( it came via French). indefatigable is a word you almost have to say quickly, and if you get through all those syllables, it's almost as if you've proven the definition- it takes "unflagging vitality" to reach the end.
They were also, along with their friend, James Baldwin, forceful members of the civil-rights movement— indefatigable because they never lost the ability to dream.
—The New Yorker Jun 13, 2014
Another etymologically negative word without a positive counterpart in Modern English, this word comes from Latin in "not" and delebilis "able to be destroyed".
Theirs is a land that considers itself a multicultural success story, but it is one tainted by an indelible stain of bigotry.
—BBC Jul 7, 2014
The word canny is rare but not unknown as a word that means "cunning" or "sly". The only problem is that that's not the meaning of canny contained in uncanny. Canny used to mean " knowing and careful" and therefore uncanny meant "mischievous" and came to refer to supernatural spirits who toyed with mortals. Comic book fans have a huge head start with this word, having grown up with the "Uncanny X-Men" who all have supernatural powers.
LaBeouf has an uncanny ability to steer the story back to him, even when the subject is decidedly not him.
—Los Angeles Times June 27, 2014
This word is one where the positive version of it did exist, but has fallen out of use. Abash meant "perplex, embarrass, lose one's composure" in the late 14th and early 15th centuries, so unabashed means "not embarrassed".
He is anxious that his own trading fame doesn't overshadow the sport but is unabashed about his passion.
—Reuters July 3, 2014
Like the famous pair flammable and inflammable, the pair boned and deboned look like they should be opposites, but in fact have come to mean the same thing.
Arend boned a chicken breast, cut it into small pieces, battered and fried the bits, and served them with a sauce.
—Slate Dec 28, 2012
Although it can get confusing, the il- in this word is not the il- in such words as illegible or illegitimate. This word comes from a Latin word illustrus which came to mean "famous", very close to what the English word now means.
As a member of one of Hungary’s most illustrious families, Karolyi grew up on a large estate, surrounded by acres of trees and lush fields.
—Washington Times July 5, 2014
bourgeois and bourgeoisie are confusing partly because of the gap between the dictionary definitions of the words and how the words are used. An adjective describing something belong to the middle class or a noun designating that class shouldn't by themselves be judgmental words, but they are nearly always used in a disparaging way. The sample sentence for bourgeoisie is a good example of the tone that accompanies these words.
To do so would be to overstep the bounds, and to display a bourgeois lack of cool.
—Cat's Eye
See above.
Somehow “kale” has become a four-letter word, like “tofu” was before it, symbolising the dietary quirks of a clueless, effete bourgeoisie.
—The Guardian July 8, 2014
This word is confusing because it sounds like it's potentially related to words like dilate or even depilatory. It's not related to either of those words, but luckily there are ways to remember what dilatory actually means—the word almost sounds like delay or dilly dally , both of which relate to the word's definition.
Some of the bloat has to do with the dilatory antics of the replacement referees, but that's not the lone cause.
—Slate Sep 12, 2012
This word looks and sounds like marionette, the stringed puppet, which is a pitfall to avoid, because it can lead you to believe that martinet means the exact opposite of what it actually means. A martinet has some power and no one is pulling their strings.
For the martinet manager it can only be his way.
—The Guardian (May 19, 2014)
hoi polloi
This is confusing because it's an obscure word for the common, and sometimes it's hard to keep straight whether the very upper crust or the common is being discussed. Hoi Polloi literally means "the many" with polloi being the plural of the well-known Greek prefix poly.
Hobnob not with the hoi polloi but rather the hoity-toity in the new unscripted series "Ladies of London."
—Los Angeles Times May 30, 2014

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Tuesday July 29th 2014, 4:08 PM
Comment by: Alexander W.
I notice that "kill" did not come up when I looked up "slay," does anyone have an idea why two words so closely related would not pull the other up? I found that very odd.

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