disoblige

verbs

to cause inconvenience or discomfort to
"Sorry to trouble you, but..."
bother, discommode, disoblige, incommode, inconvenience, put out, trouble
ignore someone's wishes
disoblige
antonym
oblige
is a type of (narrower)
bar from attention or consideration
"She dismissed his advances"
brush aside, brush off, discount, dismiss, disregard, ignore, push aside