off-putting

adjectives

causing annoyance or repugnance
"an off-putting remark"
is similar to
causing displeasure or lacking pleasing qualities
tending to repel
"The trappings of upper-class life are off-putting and sterile"- Elizabeth Hess
is similar to
not able to attract favorable attention
"they have made the place as unappealing as possible"; "was forced to talk to his singularly unappealing hostess"